As a Consultant Physiotherapist, I have had the privilege of working with many patients who suffer from a variety of musculoskeletal issues, such as back pain, knee problems, arthritis, and joint issues. T
I usually advise my patients that every individual’s body is unique, and what works for one person may not necessarily work for another. However, based on my experience, I can provide a few general guidelines to help alleviate discomfort during sexual activities.
Avoid positions that put a lot of stress on your back, knees, or other joints. Positions that involve a lot of bending, twisting, or kneeling may be uncomfortable or painful. Instead, try positions that put less stress on your joints, such as lying on your back or side.
If you have bad knees or arthritis, you may find it helpful to use a pillow or cushion to support your joints during sex. For example, if you’re lying on your back, you can place a pillow under your knees to reduce the pressure on your joints.
It’s important to communicate with your partner about your physical limitations and discomfort. This way, you can work together to find positions that are comfortable for both of you.
If you start to feel discomfort during sex, don’t be afraid to take a break. Stretching, changing positions, or taking a break altogether can help reduce pain and discomfort.
There are many other forms of sexual activity that don’t require as much physical exertion or joint movement. For example, mutual masturbation, oral sex, or using sex toys can be enjoyable and comfortable alternatives.
It’s important to remember that these positions may not work for everyone and may need to be modified based on individual needs and limitations. Consulting with a Physiotherapist or Sex Therapist provider can help provide further guidance and support. With the right adjustments and communication, those with joint problems can continue to enjoy a fulfilling and enjoyable sex life.
In summary, it’s vital to understand that everyone’s body is different, and there is no one-size-fits-all solution when it comes to engaging in sexual activities with musculoskeletal issues. Therefore, it’s essential to communicate with your partner, listen to your body, and work with a healthcare professional, such as a physiotherapist, to develop an individualized plan that works best for you.
To close, I would like to highlight the importance of taking care of your body outside of sexual activities. I usually advise my Patients to engage in regular exercise to strengthen their muscles and joints, maintain a healthy weight, and practice mobility exercises to help improve flexibility and reduce stiffness.